Who is that? Who are the unlovable?
I've just finished a book (I highly recommend reading it): "Same kind of different as me" by Denver Moore and Ron Hall. Its about how God gets into the hearts of a couple of white folks and a homeless black man who end up becoming great friends, how He changes them, how they learn to love , and how God uses that to bring fruitful relationships and healing.
So at the start of the story, the white guy finds it really hard to love a homeless person. The homeless are dirty, stinky, and criminal in his mind.
Who are the unlovable for you?
I can say that I love the homeless, or the refugees at the IDP camp just down the hill, but do I really? I don't usually try to make friends with homeless people. I also find the IDP camp a difficult place to be. There is so much need there, and it does smell.
But God does not call us to make friends out of all the homeless people, or all the people in the IDP camp, or every single person who is in real poverty. In that book, there was one man (two actually) whom God had called into a deeper friendship, and He used that friendship to change the lives of many. (You gotta read that book).
Here in Kenya, my missionary friends (white folks) have made friends with one couple in that IDP camp. The IDP couple, who I wish I knew better, believe that God has called them to that place and that they are blessed to live there. Blessed! To live in utter poverty and social stigmatization. Blessed to serve God in that place!! Who knew?? That a couple of people with literally nothing but a tent and some chickens could live so outright and committed to love others and loving God. I want to be their friend too.
We have to reach out, people. You can't stay in your house or neighborhood. Go to the place where the people are different, where they smell funny or look weird, where they have a 'record' or whatever. Look for something beautiful there that you know you can love, because it is there. I believe God is calling people in every setting--Like the couple in the IDP camp, like the black homeless man in that book- there is something beautiful there. Go find it, and love it. Throw your heart into it and see what God does. You may just end up touching a whole bunch of people without even knowing it.
You can't be afraid of rejection. You will be rejected. Because if you think those people smell funny or have bad habits, what do they think of you? But you got to go, because if you don't that wall will never come down, those people will never be free, and neither will you.
